Chances of Getting Pregnant First Month: Real Odds + Beginner TTC Tips

Written by Tamara Snook

Hey You,

So you’re peeking into the world of trying to have a baby. This is called trying to conceive (TTC). So exciting! At this point, you might also be a bit nervous. This is a big step, so that’s okay.

Maybe you just tossed your birth control. You just downloaded an app (or three). You are jumping in!

I’m so happy for you to be here and also that you found this article. You get to learn a lot of interesting information and often, the longer the journey takes the more fascinating insights you can learn about your body. Let me share some key facts first to get you started.

The good news: most healthy couples under 35 get pregnant in 6 to 12 months. Often, in just 2 to 4! It’s definitely not always as fast as they taught us in middle school, but this is totally normal.

Chances of Getting Pregnant

Here’s what the data actually shows (see table).

I'll add:

If you are under 35 with regular cycles? Give it 12 months first (90% succeed!).
If you are over 35? Check sooner, around 6 months. They can spot easy fixes fast.

Imagine you flip a coin and you want heads. You flip, and it’s tails. You flip again, it’s tails. Eventually, there’s a good chance you’ll catch heads! It’s like a long loading bar for a game that says it will take forever, but suddenly you can look over and it jumped ahead to being done!

This journey to growing your family can be so much different than expected. The journey truly will be unique for everyone. Give it time and be kind to yourselves. Try to enjoy the part where you learn about your bodies, how to improve your health and navigate with a healthful mindset. This stuff is gold as far as health and body awareness goes, so learn as much as you can as you are working towards bringing home the baby.

Tips for Beginners

Okay, let’s talk easy tips to start!

For him and her:

1. Take your vitamins. Find prenatal/fertility supplements with folate (even for him)! This is like insurance for both you and baby. Folate helps her eggs and his sperm would swim well too!
2. Watch stress. Try to add a new habit or routine in your life to help improve or better manage it. Stress creates bad hormones, which directly impact the baby-making hormones! It can even make the egg come late or even be skipped sometimes. Try walks, relaxing apps, breathing, or whatever helps you feel better.

3. Sleep! Sleep enough and consistently, as much as you can.

4. Tweak food and drinks. For some of us, it really can make a huge difference to reduce carb intake, caffeine, and alcohol. If you are sensitive to certain foods but like to dabble, maybe it’s a good time to consider a break from it.

For example, I normally ovulated later in my cycle and eating less carbs for a short while (like 10 days) helped me ovulate sooner than I’d ever seen in my years of tracking.

For her (with partner help, of course):

1. Track your cycles. You can use paper or a free app. This can help you spot signs of ovulation and can cut your time trying in half!

2. Check out the Fertile Window Blueprint Bundle. It’s your guide to where your fertile window is and when to aim for baby-making. It even covers tricky things like when cycles move around on you and birth control recovery).

3. If you are a bit swamped by lots of code words and lingo in fertility forums, you may find this TTC Lingo Decoder helpful. It’s created to decode all those acronyms and helps make a sentence a sentence again.

4. Oh, and my favorite tip of all time. Don’t do it all at once. Take just one step at a time!

If you don’t have periods and aren’t on birth control, or are on birth control and want to try for a baby see a medical professional right away. Have any known issues that could impact fertility like PCOS or past health worries (or any concerns you’d like to check on)… start the conversation with your doctor now.

Again, just one baby step at a time! You’ve got this.

More that you may be interested in:

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